Hi! I'm Hank. After 23 years of an abusive marriage, I finally left! For most of it (22 years!) I understood it as simply a marriage gone sour and lost love...

I met many women as "supporting friends" over the last 5 years. Friends only.

Companions that kept me "alive" and away from depression that was sure to kill me, as I understood little about what was really tormenting me.

I met Marla. Marla's Father was also an abused husband. She immediately recognized the symptoms. She woke me up.

She loved both of her parents. She lost her Father years ago. She couldn't stand back and watch it happen to someone she cared about. 

I hope to spend what remains of it with her. I hope all of you find "your Marla" in your life before it is too late!

Hank

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